As we approach the end of another year, it's a good time for organizations to assess their investment in staff, management and leadership development opportunities for the purpose of strengthening and retaining internal talent as well as to enhance business performance. Making development a priority and a strategic imperative for growth is a key differentiator for success. It is also a good time for all of us to assess our own personal development and set goals for the coming year. Goal setting has become a ritual that I exercise every December on both a personal and professional basis. Planning for the upcoming year not only empowers us to accomplish our goals but makes us more accountable to do so effectively.
One specific area of development for which there is growing need and demand is for women in leadership. Not only do women make up 50% of the workforce today, there are more women in positions of leadership as well as more women with advanced degrees. As women go through a variety of effective leadership development programs that enable them to build their leadership capabilities and equip them with necessary skills and competencies, at times there are additional needs that are fundamental for women to succeed that go beyond the leadership classroom. At the core, it requires a strong sense of self and confidence to see our value, leverage it and articulate it in order to achieve our goals and aspirations. It also may require bold thinking and breaking of societal norms, standards and/or expectations to unleash utmost potential sometimes unrealized or untapped.
A few years ago as I was interviewed for an article, the writer asked me what advice I would give to women today. My answer was… trust yourself, I mean really trust yourself - your judgment, your capabilities, your instincts and your dreams. Don't short change yourself or minimize your talents, accomplishments and decisions. Take some risks - what's the worst that can happen? Get rid of the guilt and learn to gracefully say no, when necessary and yes, when desired. Lastly, I would say it's really important to take care of yourself emotionally. Our well being and our balance comes from inside first and if we know our emotional self at the core, that truly makes all the difference in how we are present and fulfilled. Find your passion and allow yourself to experience the things that make you whole both professionally and personally. Enjoy the journey every step of the way! It's essential for women to raise your voice and raise your visibility, and not apologize for doing so!
In fact, there is much research indicating growing changes in the way society and women approach their careers. One of my colleagues, Jodi Detjen, Professor of Management at Suffolk University and Co-Author of The Orange Line: A Woman's Guide to Integrating Career, Family and Life conducted a lengthy study that uniquely addresses the underlying barriers women face as they build a successful career. Based on her extensive research, Jodi highlights some of her findings:
1) Biases and Assumptions
Women struggle to implement the advice above because they seek to change the behavior without changing the underlying reasons why they avoid risk, aren’t confident, or choose to put their needs second.
Many women struggle because they have internalized cultural biases about what it means to be a woman. This view of the world is the cumulative result of generations of cultural socialization. It is difficult for women to see themselves outside of this context. And it is based upon a set of widely accepted assumptions that guide how women “should” live and what women “should” believe. For example, three biases are:
As you can see and likely have experienced either in yourself or with your employees, these internalized assumptions are quite limiting. They present the world as either/or: either I follow these “rules” or I am not good enough. It’s a negatively reinforcing, vicious cycle.
2) Shifting Our Mindset
The good news is that there is a way out. The way out is to shift our mindset. We can notice these assumptions and think differently about them. What do I mean?
3) Taking Action
What do you notice about these examples? When we start to see how insidious these assumptions are in our daily decisions, just noticing reduces their power.
We then take action – we reframe the assumption and follow it with conscious action.
As a result, we open up possibilities, feel less guilty and end up having more space and energy.
Ask Rita: Do you have a career question and/or a career story to share? Email your questions or stories to email@example.com
 Bureau of Labor Statistics, Women in the Workforce Report, December 2014
 Deborah Spar, Wonder Women: Sex, Power and the Quest for Perfection, 2013
 Katty Kay and Claire Shipman, The Confidence Gap, Atlantic Monthly, May 2014
 Andreas Leibbrandt and John List. National Bureau of Economic Research. November 2012.
 Sameer Srivastava, Agents of Change or Cogs in the Machine. August 2014.
L&MB Magazine 6 - Q2, 2016
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